Sunday, July 24, 2011

Sick... SO SICK... of Child Abuse/Neglect

I can't take this shit anymore. Every time I go into the store, I witness at least one case of it. Not to mention ALL of the horrific stuff you hear about on the news. The things I see could be catastrophes just waiting to happen. Last night I was in Kroger, and this woman, a low budge Nicki Minaj look-a-like, was wandering around the store, twirling her hair on her finger, as her adorable little 2 year old stumbled behind her. He followed her wherever she went, but not ONCE did she look back for her baby. There was at least 15 feet between them. And when she turned the corner suddenly and then backtracked to look at the end of an aisle kiosk, her purse almost knocked him over. She didn't even notice. She kept walking. I eventually turned my head because I didn't wanna see it anymore. I did hear him whine for his momma at one point, to which this dumbass woman replied, "What????" As if she couldn't understand why he'd be calling her name or wanting her attention. And what infuriated me even more was that this little boy had bruises on his legs!! I paid attention to that because I had just seen a TV special about doctors working in the ER and children who came in with suspicious injuries. Sure enough this little toddler had bruises all over his legs. And I thought to myself... fucking bitch. He did not get those from playing with other kids.

And this woman only has one baby. In Walmart I often see groups of 4-5 children, all a year or so apart... and their mom is doing all her shopping and yelling at them in between throwing shit in her cart. Telling them she's going to whoop this one or that one. I'm so sick of it... why on earth do you have these children if you hate it or can't handle it? Why not take advantage of all the services out there and allow them to have a better life. It's much better to be unselfish vs putting them through that misery and being a horrible mother. They don't deserve it.

Upon leaving Walmart on another shopping trip, I noticed 3 kids (young, 5 yrs or under) in the backseat of a car. They were acting all hyper and playing with eachother... but it was 90 degrees out. Is that really necessary? If you are going into Walmart to shop, why can't your kids come with you???? As annoying as it might be to keep track of them or try to keep them calm while you finish shopping.... leaving them in the car makes it obvious that you could care less about how they feel, trapped in a sauna. In my opinion this is child abuse.

If women are willing to do this in public, I don't wanna know what these kids' home life is like.

TOO MANY unfit parents out there caring for children w/o their best interests at heart. To these ignorant people, their babies are burdens.... things to be dragged along on shopping trips, annoying obstacles to their having a personal life.... MONEY. I cannot stand to sit by and watch so many innocent children live these horrible lives at the hands of parents who hate them... simply for their being in existence. WHO BROUGHT THEM HERE? Who decided to have a kid... or who was too selfish to use protection that a pregnancy resulted?

These people are not taking responsibility for their actions. Having your child in your possession is not taking responsibility. It's providing them with food, shelter, love, education, etc etc etc. Their lives are too valuable to be spent locked away in a trailer home w/o air conditioning while you work 10 hours at the local restaurant. WHO DOES THAT? I forget which state it happened in, but thank god the woman was arrested. Seriously are you too cheap to turn your AC unit on while you go to work... and you have a 1 year old, a 3 year old, and a 4 year old in your trailer home!!! Seriously what the fuck. You don't have a friend, a neighbor, the children's father... to help you out??? Or are you just too lazy to look into these options? It's disgusting what people are willing to do to others just so that they can do what they want. I.e. All those mothers who leave their kids in their cars when they go shopping. Not having to deal with the "hassle" of your children outweighs the fact it's 95 degrees out. Ha... unbelievable.

The prevalence of child neglect bothers me so much, and not just because of how wrong and cruel it is. There are so many people in this world longing for a child... for someone to love and care for. I understand that these single parents working multiple jobs need help... but there are so many places they can go for this *free* help... so I'm beginning to think it's just a lack of concern for their children's well being and happiness. That urgs me to the core. You bring them into this world, then treat them like that. It's sickening, heartbreaking...

If you see any form of child neglect, i.e. children left in the backseat of a car, please do the right thing and call police. Chances are these people won't keep doing it if they know they will be caught and penalized. If they do continue to do it, then reporting them will eventually result in their children getting taken from them and put into the good homes they deserve.

Sigh. infuriating.

Wednesday, July 13, 2011

Amber Portwood Proves She's a Bad Mom (Again)

I understand that the girls on Teen Mom are young.... under a lot of stress... and adjusting to the responsibilities and sacrifices required of new mothers. However there is one "cast member" that continues to disgust me, and that is Amber Portwood. (Jenelle will always be the most pathetic excuse for a mother, but she's from a different season). Anyways, Amber has once again proved that 1) she's total trash and 2) that she hasn't learned anything from her past experience on the show. She should know better by now, yet her appearances on screen are still characterized by her awful mood swings and constant bitching at Gary. One minute, she'll be all happy and dozed out on Klonopin, talking about wanting to be a happy family. The next, she's telling Gary to shut the fu*ck up because he's too loud and he talks too much. The poor guy CANNOT catch a break. It's so hard to watch... if only he had the strength to cut that girl off completely. It's obvious he'd do anything for the mother of his child, and for a lot of teen moms, this is a rarity. Amber might have had a bad family situation growing up, but given everything she has now (+ $$$$ from the show) and everything she's gone through with Gary, it's amazing that she still hasn't taken a look the mirror. It's not GARY you dumbass.... it's you!!! A person so miserable and angry is not in a position to be a good mother, and that explains why Gary and his mom have full custody.

Now a nose ring-wearing Amber is in rehab in Malibu... reportedly checked in to manage her pill addiction "anger issues". Wonder whose footing the bill for that.

Anyways, what I'm saying is, I don't wanna see this bitch back on Teen Mom until she undergoes a complete transformation. That would mean that she actually tries being a good mom (no laying in bed all day and whining when someone makes noise) and no verbal and physical abuse towards her baby daddy. What are the chances of this happening? 0. Poor Gary....

His heart is a lot bigger than his brain, that's for sure.